Is an eternally nagging question that even war veterans find difficult to handle. It so happens that the daughters-in-law are the products of the millennial age, and the mothers-in-law are the children of the transition period, culturally speaking.
It so happens that most of
today's mothers-in-law grew up in the lap of matriarchal dominance, and the DIL
is from that brave new world that shouts out gender equality. The cultural and
generation gap is surely to blame for the eternal fight between the mother and
daughter-in-law. So, the husband trains himself to juggle two boats
simultaneously. The MIL should understand that her DIL has detached herself
from the entire family to be a part of the MILs family. Whereas the DIL should
understand the value of a beautiful institution such as marriage the sanctity
involved and imbibe some values that are a part of the traditional Indian
psyche. Treat them respectfully according to the position of their importance
in the family. However, the best advice would be to turn on your humanitarian
and compassionate side and learn to treat human beings as human beings who have
equal rights and needs. You should know that your DIL/MIL is a human too, with
her plus and minuses. All of us deserve pity as every one of us goes through
hell all the time. Our expressions are our emotional outlets. And we better
understand. It is up to us to be human beings, as it is our dharma.
It is up to the others to be
what they are, which is our/their karma.
In-Laws as per date of birth and Time
However, we can consider the
following astrological measures to escape the much-awaited heartache. By
looking at your marriage horoscope,
you can know your in-laws' good or bad traits.
Mother-in-law: The 10th
House from the 7th
House represents mother-in-law. This House, if strongly fortified,
certainly creates sparkling vibes between the MIL and DIL. In the case of
women, Jupiter signifies husband in their horoscopes, and the fourth House from
Jupiter has clues to your mom-in-law's personality. We could also check for the
planets in the 10th House, lord of
10th House and 4th House from Jupiter, and lord of 4th House from
Jupiter. The most powerful planet amongst these lets you in on the exact nature
of your mil. That would also be the ruling planet of your MIL.
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Dashamesh is the tenth house
lord. It represents your mother-in-law. If the dashmesh is sun, then
mother-in-law would be a control freak. If the moon happens to be the dashmesh,
mother-in-law would be a caring, kind soul. Mother-in-law would be very strict
and obsessed about discipline, but overall good at heart if the tenth lord is
Mars. If mercury is seated as the tenth lord, the mother-in-law of the native
would be a smart woman. If dashmesh happens to be Jupiter, mother-in-law would
be very pious. If venus is dashmesh, mother-in-law would be beautiful and
modern. If Saturn is dashmesh, mother-in-law would be restrictive
closed-minded, but overall good. If Rahu Ketu were dashmesh, mother-in-law
would be a tyrant and be extremely troublesome to the native. Afflicted or debilitated
or weak dashmesh would point at a mother-in-law who would be too challenging to
handle, whereas a fortified dashmesh in raja yoga would mean that your
mother-in-law would be a gem of a person.
Father-in-law: The 3rd
House or the ninth from the 7th House is the significator for FIL. A good
number of benefic influences on this House increases the concord between you
and your FIL. We can ascertain whether he is alive or dead through the Dasha
and Bhukti of the native and also by the nature of afflicted sun from the
seventh House. If the lord of 3rd
house is exalted, the FIL will be an affluent man well settled in life.
A debilitated planet will indicate an interfering FIL that always meddles with
the native's life.
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A similar result is predicted for
the third lord in debilitation in the navamsha chart. This shows that The FIL
would be the main obstacle to the native's success in life. The influence of
Sun, Saturn, and Rahu on the third lord creates a rift between the FIL and the
person concerned. The fifth and ninth lords on the 3rd lord and well-placed
benefics like Jupiter and Venus give a caring and generous FIL.
Brother or sister-in-law:
The 9th
House or the third from the seventh House governs the younger brother
or sister-in-law. The fifth House, or the 11th from the 7th, rules elder
brother or sister-in-law. The placement of Rahu or Mars in the 9th House
indicates arguments with the brothers or sisters-in-law. Friendly planets like
Jupiter, Moon, or Venus improve the chances of a cordial relationship with the
brothers or sisters-in-law. If the House Lords are in a weak House from the
native's ascendant, it may lead to troubles within the relationship.
The second
House would be worthy of consideration here as it is termed the Kutumba
bhava or House of relatives. It indicates those staying outside your family,
those not necessarily related by blood.
The 8th
House or the 2nd to the 7th House signifies the relatives of in-laws.
The sixth House to the 7th
House, that is, the 12th
House, denotes the maternal uncles of the partner.
Source: In
laws from a horoscope
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